Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner

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This might be the most unusual dinner invitation you have ever received, but bear with us. We think we are in for a remarkable experience.

Survey after survey has shown that 100% of respondents eventually die at some point.

Three quarters of Americans say they want to spend their last days at home surrounded by loved ones.  Only one quarter get their wish.

Just over half of all Medicare dollars are spent on patients who die within two months, and over 40% of bankruptcies are precipitated by end-of-life expenses.

Clearly our health care system is broken.  So is our death care system. 

"Let's Have Dinner and Talk About Death" aims to inspire people to talk about an often-not-discussed topic—death and dying. As the opening statement on the website DeathOverDinner.org notes, "How we want to die represents the most important and costly conversation America isn’t having.”

The dinner table is the most forgiving place for difficult conversation. The ritual of breaking bread creates warmth and connection, and puts us in touch with our humanity. It offers an environment that is more suitable than the usual places we discuss end of life.

Following our October 9 Assembly on end-of-life options, we would be honored if you would join a small, intimate group of Sunday Assemblers for dinner in our home to engage in this conversation. This is not meant to be a morbid conversation, but instead a very human one where we consider what we want, both in life and in death. Through sharing our thoughts and feelings on this subject, we can more readily move through our fears, shed inhibitions, and forge deeper understanding and connection with our loved ones.

To facilitate the conversation, some readings and online resources will be shared with the participants before the date.

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If you cannot join us on Oct. 14 in Monrovia, Shawn Shih is hosting a parallel event on Thursday, Oct. 27 in Little Tokyo (details HERE), or Ian Dodd & Margot Page are hosting one on the westside on Saturday, Oct. 29 in Culver City (details HERE).

WHEN
October 14, 2016 at 7pm - 10pm
WHERE
Home of Marsha & Keith Swallow
916 W Colorado Blvd
Monrovia, CA 91016
United States
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CONTACT
Marsha Swallow · · (503) 267-0419
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    No longer tentative. We’ll be there. :-)
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    Tentative RSVP for now. May have to work but will be trying to figure it out. My plus one will be Livi… so advanced notice if we do make it lol
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